We don't love asking for things,
Boundaries are hard. They seem harsh with prickly edges. But loving yourself is also one of the hardest endeavors. Our culture has told us that we need to be self-sacrificing and put others first. But we are learning and growing and realizing that we have to care for ourselves first if we are ever going to move forward with healing and enlightenment. How can we teach our children to be better if we don’t show them the way? Setting boundaries is the first step towards self-love, confidence, and becoming the trailblazer of personal development and growth.
Confidence and self-worth are embezzled on the back of NO boundaries. You become a welcome mat for those who thrive on the control they seek by taking advantage of others. Do not arbitrate your worth with those who seek to withdraw all of your energy for their own gain.
